People around you, people who you see everyday and people who step by not caring about you, think they know. They look at you and make an opinion. They get a lot of thoughts but in the end, still one conclusion which may not be exactly the true. After a while, they think they know you. But what they don't know is that maybe sometimes you did not agree with them but you kept the silence because you didn't need a fight at that time. Maybe that happened a lot of times. Maybe that happens always. But still those people think they know you.
What you really want is to show them the real you, the personality you kept inside of you hidden 'cause you thought that it would be better so you would skip a fight with people you don't care about or in the other way, you really care of. The fact that you did that, made people judge you differently of who you are. And no matter what you say, for those people, you will be always the same. The relationship you have with those person cannot be called "friendship" because, the term of "friend" is based on trust, honesty and faith. As you lied to those people, you cannot be called a friend.
In conclusion, If we want real friends, let's not hide our true thoughts and feelings and If those people who you considered friends start to ignore you, you should just get over it and look out for new friends and relationships.
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